Can you be friends with an ex?
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(04-15-2025, 07:06 PM)~ True Legend ~ Wrote:
(03-24-2025, 11:38 PM)Kyng Wrote: Well, I'm friends with Detective Osprey, so... yes :lol: !

Though, admittedly, there was quite a long time between the break-up and us becoming friends again. I think it'd be very difficult for me to stay friends with someone immediately after a break-up, unless the break-up came from a mutual realisation that the two of us were better off as friends anyway :P .

What drew you back as friends, except for maybe your Kyng-dom ? :P

Some common interests. And, more recently, the fact that we both follow restricted diets (she's vegan, whereas I'm wheat- and dairy-free).
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(04-16-2025, 08:00 AM)Kyng Wrote:
(04-15-2025, 07:06 PM)~ True Legend ~ Wrote:
(03-24-2025, 11:38 PM)Kyng Wrote: Well, I'm friends with Detective Osprey, so... yes :lol: !

Though, admittedly, there was quite a long time between the break-up and us becoming friends again. I think it'd be very difficult for me to stay friends with someone immediately after a break-up, unless the break-up came from a mutual realisation that the two of us were better off as friends anyway :P .

What drew you back as friends, except for maybe your Kyng-dom ? :P

Some common interests. And, more recently, the fact that we both follow restricted diets (she's vegan, whereas I'm wheat- and dairy-free).

That’s lovely, you have a friend to bounce ideas off 😊
What are your common interests?
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(04-16-2025, 08:48 AM)~ True Legend ~ Wrote:
(04-16-2025, 08:00 AM)Kyng Wrote:
(04-15-2025, 07:06 PM)~ True Legend ~ Wrote: What drew you back as friends, except for maybe your Kyng-dom ? :P

Some common interests. And, more recently, the fact that we both follow restricted diets (she's vegan, whereas I'm wheat- and dairy-free).

That’s lovely, you have a friend to bounce ideas off 😊
What are your common interests?

Well, we both enjoy building our own fictional universes - and we both enjoy science and nature.

Also, we're both on the spectrum, so we have some things in common there :P .
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(04-16-2025, 12:42 PM)Kyng Wrote:
(04-16-2025, 08:48 AM)~ True Legend ~ Wrote:
(04-16-2025, 08:00 AM)Kyng Wrote: Some common interests. And, more recently, the fact that we both follow restricted diets (she's vegan, whereas I'm wheat- and dairy-free).

That’s lovely, you have a friend to bounce ideas off 😊
What are your common interests?

Well, we both enjoy building our own fictional universes - and we both enjoy science and nature.

Also, we're both on the spectrum, so we have some things in common there :P .
Like those roller coasters :P
Please invite me to your theme park 🥺


What is it ablut science and nature that most interests you both?
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(This post was last modified: 04-16-2025, 01:06 PM by Kyng.)
(04-16-2025, 01:03 PM)~ True Legend ~ Wrote:
(04-16-2025, 12:42 PM)Kyng Wrote:
(04-16-2025, 08:48 AM)~ True Legend ~ Wrote: That’s lovely, you have a friend to bounce ideas off 😊
What are your common interests?

Well, we both enjoy building our own fictional universes - and we both enjoy science and nature.

Also, we're both on the spectrum, so we have some things in common there :P .
Like those roller coasters :P
Please invite me to your theme park 🥺


What is it ablut science and nature that most interests you both?

Yeah, possibly :P .

To be honest, though, this is getting beyond the scope of this thread - so if you'd like to ask us further follow-up questions like this, can you please ask them in our Ask Me threads?
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(04-16-2025, 01:06 PM)Kyng Wrote:
(04-16-2025, 01:03 PM)~ True Legend ~ Wrote:
(04-16-2025, 12:42 PM)Kyng Wrote: Well, we both enjoy building our own fictional universes - and we both enjoy science and nature.

Also, we're both on the spectrum, so we have some things in common there :P .
Like those roller coasters :P
Please invite me to your theme park 🥺


What is it ablut science and nature that most interests you both?

Yeah, possibly :P .

To be honest, though, this is getting beyond the scope of this thread - so if you'd like to ask us further follow-up questions like this, can you please ask them in our Ask Me threads?
Friends gotta dish out free invites 😎
We can continue this convo on discord :P
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Anyway. It is possible, yes. But it depends and it varies. I've continued to speak to some after break-up for a time. A few have been quick to piss off after, so no chance there of being friends. I do not want friendship with some when it's just too personally hurtful and awkward. I don't speak to any exes at this point.
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I am really good friends with my ex-boyfriend that I broke up with almost 3 years before I started going out with the man that I married to now. My ex-boyfriend is like an older brother to me now and we have both realized that we are better as friends over the years.
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(This post was last modified: 04-19-2025, 10:03 PM by LadyJirachu.)
I would hope if me and my girlfriend by any chance didn’t work out, that we would still be friends. I like getting along with her (and everyone else) I know as much as I can :3

but, so far, me and her seem like a truly connected pair :) (while getting to know each other slowly)

she is so beautiful, though, that even if I were friendzoned by her I think it would be really hard to stop crushing on her for awhile at this point. XD; just…..I am really attracted to that woman. She is hotter than like anyone else I ever layed eyes on .///.;;; heehee…
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