Is it ever okay to cheat in relationships?

[The Last Outlaw]

This is my hill to die on.

NO!  It's NEVER OK to cheat in a relationship.   If you are in a committed relationship, you are committed to love that man/woman you are with.  If that is not happening, and you need to get out of the relationship, get out of that relationship.  Find someone who you can commit to and in the same instance, someone who can and WILL commit to you.

I literally prayed to the Almighty to put me in a relationship with someone who would love me, but love Him more.  I've have been married to her for 5 1/2 years.

[LadyJirachu]

This is my hill to die on.

NO!  It's NEVER OK to cheat in a relationship.   If you are in a committed relationship, you are committed to love that man/woman you are with.  If that is not happening, and you need to get out of the relationship, get out of that relationship.  Find someone who you can commit to and in the same instance, someone who can and WILL commit to you.

I literally prayed to the Almighty to put me in a relationship with someone who would love me, but love Him more.  I've have been married to her for 5 1/2 years.

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A truly committed relationship is worth more than gold. Even when things get rough, even if communication gets hard….if you truly love your person, you FIGHT for them. Always. Forever. And never back down till you two truly are together for life

Because a partner is not just a partner.

They are your truest best friend.

Path Light proved my point 100% and has made the best post in this thread. Hands down

As I post this, together forever from Pokémon is playing on my iPad (though now it’s ending lol). Because my girlfriend is my best friend too

Even if it takes forever for me and her to have our first kiss. Or we never marry.

Or the “good lord” disides to truly burn us eternally for being in a lesbian relationship with each other.

WHO CARES!!! She is my person I thought of that all night.

And it’s forever.

I will always make room in my heart for her and I know if I stay by her side, it’s gonna be forever for us. And we will truly stay connected and learn to know and trust each other 💯%.

 

Thanks Path Light for helping me more to prove my point that the best partners in the world are to be with us forever.

One day she will know this too

Perhaps….maybe she already does. Just cos I learned all this for her.
💕💕💕💯🫶🏻

edit; also 🌈 cos hey I have pride in that girl and I am just…..the happiest woman in the world to know her. And one day, she will be a happy woman along side me.
Cos…..True love lasts forever.😊🥹

[deyana]

No, not okay in my opinon.

[LadyJirachu]

Also a lot of relationships can work out as long as there’s general respect in them.

like me and my pretty and endearing girlfriend are taking things slowly rekindling our overall romantic relationship with each other but there’s clear signs of kindness and respect and no mean spiritedness as slowly as we have been taking things. We don’t really call or text at the moment but we smile and wave at each other at day program and are very positive with each other with our casual flirting. Her family does struggle a bit with accepting her being a lesbian, but they have improved in general over time compared to a few months ago. Eventually the issues with her being who she is will no longer be a thing with the rest of them in time. As long as me and her keep getting along, the positivity will likely help us truly connect in the end the way we are meant to

That said, there’s no way, unless I am gaven any good reason or the sense of respect and fondness go away, for me to ever consider leaving her. She is my person unless time truly proves otherwise. And I never plan on it doing so. Ever.

[Jarkko]

This is my hill to die on.

NO!  It's NEVER OK to cheat in a relationship.   If you are in a committed relationship, you are committed to love that man/woman you are with.  If that is not happening, and you need to get out of the relationship, get out of that relationship.  Find someone who you can commit to and in the same instance, someone who can and WILL commit to you.

I literally prayed to the Almighty to put me in a relationship with someone who would love me, but love Him more.  I've have been married to her for 5 1/2 years.

PREACH.

[Sarah]

Never in a billion years. If a relationship is unhealthy, just break-up instead. My second ex-boyfriend became a manipulative jerk in the end, but I didn't cheat at all, instead I broke up with him and then cut-him out of my life due to how toxic he'd became.

[LadyJirachu]

Cheating also shows ungratefulness for your partner, as well.

Like my relationship with that woman I like irl, we don’t always talk a lot outside my day program, but I am grateful to have her and I see no conflict between me and her. I have learned to no longer feel impatient that we are bonding more slowly, cos my gratitude for her gets greater and greater each day she is the partner the universe brought me, and the way me and her are now, is perfect the way it is🌟 we are kind and respectful to each other. Eventually we will actually date and stuff in time. Especially if we stay faithful (which so far seems the case for both of us from what I know, and I know I don’t want to leave the pretty little dear for anyone else🌈).